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Coping with Crime
Crimes may have very adverse effects on a victim. These effects can occur in violent as well as non-violent crimes. They may occur during the crime, but often continue to pop up after the crime is over. Some victims experience symptoms of this trauma exposure for years after the crime has occurred. This is completely normal.
During a Crime
Many of a victim’s reactions during a crime will be automatic. This reactions do not occur by choice, but they are a natural product of the body’s response to trauma. A victim may not be conscious of what they are doing. Events may seem to be in slow motion. Several minutes may seem like an hour. A victim may focus exclusively on one or two aspects of what is happening and not notice other events which are occurring.
Common Reactions Include:
- Fear for one’s personal safety or the safety of witnesses
- Feelings of helplessness
- Confusion about what to do or how to respond to the criminal’s demands
- Anger at having to surrender money or goods
- Concern that the criminal may remember them
- Physical reactions such as trembling, fighting, or inability to move
In the Immediate Aftermath
After the crime is over, a common immediate reaction is one of relief. This may be followed by feelings of:
Anger
- At having been victimized
- At a system which allowed it to happen
- At the criminals because they got away
- At possibly having to give up belongings
- At the police for not arriving earlier
Helplessness
- That nothing could stop the crime
- That victimization can occur at work, at home, or on the street
- That anything can happen, at any time
Guilt
- For not behaving properly during the crime
- For not preventing the crime
- For not being able to remember details of the crime
Frustration
- Because of answering so many questions
- Because the memory may not be clear or reliable
- Because employers, friends, or family may not be sympathetic
Later That Day
The time shortly after a crime can be particularly difficult. The stress and emotions resulting from the crime can result in tiredness or fatigue.
It Is Common To:
- Feel alone and frightened, especially for those living alone
- Want to talk about the crime at great length
- Not want to talk about it at all
- Worry that the criminals may come after you
- Experience loss of appetite
- Lose interest in being affectionate with loved ones
- Not want to listen to the problems of others
- Experience restlessness and sleeplessness
- Wake up suddenly after falling asleep
The Next Few Days
The effects of a crime may not disappear immediately. In the first few days following a crime, unusual feelings may continue such as:
- Apprehension and vulnerability
- Fear and overreacting to sudden movements or loud noises
- Diminished self worth
- Uncertainty, irritability, forgetfulness or unsociable tendencies
- Preoccupation with the crime, such as re-living the crime through recurring thoughts or identifying people that look like the criminal
One Week to One Month
During this time period, reactions begin to diminish for many victims. However, it is not unusual for feelings and physical signs of trauma to continue for some time. A brief relapse after a difficult day or a stressful event is normal, but recovery will likely continue.
It is not uncommon to continue to:
- Dream about the event
- Suffer from sleeplessness
- Have periods of depression or irritability
- Withdraw from people
Coping
- Victims can do some things which will help to recover from a crime, such as:
- Refrain from excessive use of alcohol
- Exercise regularly
- Maintain a proper diet
- Rest regularly
- Continue contact with people who provide support
- Discuss the event with colleagues, supervisors, friends and family – people who will listen and not judge you
- Pay attention to stress levels and ability to cope
If you have concerns about your recovery from trauma, call and ask to speak with victim advocate 540-372-1040.
Elizabeth K. Humphries
Commonwealth’s Attorney
PO Box 886
Fredericksburg, VA 22404
Ph: 540-372-1040
Fx: 540-372-1181
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